Be Gracious, Friday, August 27, 2010

Reading: III John 1:9, I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will have nothing to do with us.

Maybe today’s passage will help clarify graciousness in relationships. We live in a society which emphasizes self: “Think of yourself first”; “Do yourself a favor”; “You deserve a break”; “You’re worth it”. But, putting yourself first is really a reaction of selfishness. The other way to live is called being gracious. How do you live graciously for others?... for your spouse?

Let’s look at the descriptions of Gaius and Diotrephes. Diotrephes lived for himself instead of thinking of others. But, John referred to Gaius as a beloved friend. The word beloved means delight, admiration… that’s graciousness.

Being gracious is usually seen through words of concern, love and serving. One way to express graciousness from Scripture is through hospitality. It’s an expression of love. Paul told the church at Tome to practice hospitality (Romans 12:13) In Hebrews the words are even strong “Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by doing so, some people have entertained angels without knowing it” (Hebrews 13:2). Being gracious means, reaching out to meet the needs of others around you.

Think for a moment, are you more Gaius or Diotrephes?

What characteristics in your life determine your choice?


How could you be more gracious at work?


How could you be more gracious at home or in general to those within whom you come into contact?

REVIEW
 
Take some time to review your day and your actions. Were you able to demonstrate graciousness throughout the day?

How were you able to maintain that graciousness?